I believe the sexual revolution was around the ‘70, ‘80, ‘90’ for me it began in 1981 she was a girl I knew from school and around the neighborhood. I knew very little about her, but she was very nice to me and kind of cute in a high school kind of way. After graduating we didn’t keep with the same crowd so we faded back to being strangers until one night in 1981 she joined our crowd for a night of hanging around listening to music a little drinking a little weed just enjoying the moment on a Friday night. As the night progressed into the wee hours and the people were going their own way either alone or with a girl from the bar across the street she and I found ourselves alone, the beer and weed had settled in and we both had a nice buzz going and the electricity was palpable we climbed into the back of my van and spent the night rocking the van until sunrise. In the morning she hopped in her car and drove out of my life for what would end up being four years. It was a great first time for me although as I have looked back on that night throughout my life it was OK not mind blowing earth shattering sex just OK, mostly because I had zero experience in the act of sex so I made a promise to myself to learn how to have great sex. Turns out it is a lifetime commitment to always learning always improving always being aware of your partner’s actions and reactions, techniques that are proven winners and losers. Back then all we had were books and magazines which if you ever lived in a small town were something you were buying without one of you parents or brothers finding out, the other option which I decided to use was talk to women, as questions, even the uncomfortable ones. The women should be older out of college single a little promiscuous. So clearly I was going to be traveling to other towns and cities to find the knowledge I was looking for.