Dan the man

I think it depends on the situation I’m in or the people involved. I’m typically an introvert so it’s a far stretch for me to step into the leadership role, but that doesn’t mean I follow whoever has, if I don’t agree with them I will say my peace and go my own way, I have tried the leadership role in a management position and hated it. There I realized it’s human nature to buck the establishment, not follow rules beat the man etc… I didn’t like that level of stress. I was also at that point I discovered I am the only one responsible for my well being, being a manager you have to assign tasks to people who do not want to do them and basically half ass the job and I found myself doing the job for them and lying to my boss. It was a futile attempt to keep harmony. These days I manage my life very well, no stress, I also help my wife who is a large part of my life together we are a dream team something I never experienced before and something I had to learn to be part of. I love learning I believe it keeps me sharp, but I am in no hurry to lead others.