What’s the first impression you want to give people?
Kindness, but typically that is the last impression I give. All my life I’ve been misread pretty much my entire life, I am a bigger guy having spent the majority of my life in the gym and I imagine the intensity of my workouts reflected on my face so people would avoid me and I was good with that, I figured the people who understood me would be okay with it. During the dating phase of life most women would shy away the ones that didn’t were very surprised at my demeanor. All these years later I still try to emote kindness, it’s in my heart, but now I keep it closer to the vest to keep it safe.
Dan the man 