When it comes to miracles, magic, karma or irony I would say I definitely believe and I have experienced many happenings that really I couldn’t explain, you know that Oh my God moment or how did I end up here and you trace it back and realize it’s where you’re supposed to be. Feelings, intuition, Deja vu. Are they real or is it our minds/ imagination messing with us. Things happen and I do question it but I’m not losing sleep over it. So I first got married when I was 30 years old, our first son was born the same year we gave him my middle name even though my brother all named their first son after them like my parents did. I felt it would be better to give my son his own identity so I broke tradition and gave him my middle name, Mark. A couple of years later we were having another boy and I liked the name Oliver and almost had my wife sold on the name, but she liked the name David so that’s who he is. David was 7 when we divorced and my ex took custody of both of the boys she badmouthed me so bad they rarely wanted to see me. Over the years I’ve tried with little success to build a relationship with them. Now it’s been 25 years since the divorce I moved to Florida and after the kids were grown she let them come see me for a couple of weeks if they wanted, David ended up moving here his last year of high school, not because he loved me because his mother was moving to a different town, he didn’t want to move so he came to live with me. He finished school go a job at the local market and found a girlfriend. I would go see him at the market every so often and it was as good as it can be, but he doesn’t have a lot of love for me and I understand that and tell him I love him and his girlfriend a lot. So last year his girlfriend’s FB page shows up on my page, I click on it and see that she is just a few weeks away from giving birth, she had a whole photo shoot done with the babies weight sex and name. It’s a boy and his name is Oliver, that is the moment right?!? Like a kick in the balls. So how do you explain that enough to make sense?? You don’t, you just sit back and laugh because you’re never going to have an answer. That’s the beauty of life.