Dan the man

Now I do! I would say up until my forties I ignored my gut feeling and instincts, I called them spider senses because I actually felt the tingle of a warning sign or walking into a place and immediately felt you’re in the wrong place but stayed anyway only to get the shit kicked out of me or end up somewhere even worse. My biggest problem with all this was women, I would approach them and would see the red flags flying all around her and still buy her drinks and shots whatever she wanted I just had to have her. I would say I was probably a creep back then maybe even a sexual deviant although there were many times I could have taken advantage but did the right thing. Even doing the right thing got me arrested a few times, I always blamed myself it wasn’t the woman’s fault for being hot and sending all the signals that got us in bed, it was the eighties and nineties and socializing was totally different than today, but the instincts were the same I just needed find my way back to myself once I did life became much easier to live.