Are you a good judge of character?

I used to believe I was, but who am I to judge. Silly I know but looking back throughout my life I was a judging POS, so at some point in my late adult life I made a conscious decision to stop judging people. Why do we even do it? Who the fuck are we to believe we’re better than anyone? Who are we above to look down on people that often times we don’t even know or never even met? The opinion of others is still very much more important than the opinion of ourselves and that’s where the change has to be made. I used to care how people perceived me, now, I care how I see me how I feel about myself, I used to judge myself way more than now. For me it’s all about the moment, my happiness in the moment and I will tell you that I get very happy replying to these questions because they really hit home for me and I can share my thoughts, feelings and experiences here on this platform jussi as all of you do for me and all the other people here. I read the stories here and the people that write them I do not judge, but I try and put myself in their shoes because I believe that’s where the imagination kicks in and starts to run wild.


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