I think our perspective on life is solely based on events or experiences, as a child the world is huge, mysterious and exciting and the only hurt we feel are from those around us, our parents discipline teaches us right from wrong our friends dare us to defy authority our teachers teach us facts and figures what was what used to be. Puberty brings internal trauma, ups and downs just a roller coaster of emotions and heartbreak that we must deal with on our own. We become jaded and Leary of people our skin thickens as we build the wall around our inner self. That’s before adulthood, here it’s as easy as one bad decision ruins everything, settling for a job instead of perusing a career just to make money, marrying the wrong one because the right one was to far behind her. It’s impossible to see the light of day when you’re in constant darkness, year after year nothing but black. At a time when most are peaking in their careers, their lives you realize you’re still standing because the light shone in for only a moment, all the losses you’ve suffered through all the pain you’ve endured all the times you were done, finished. That was all because of your prospective was clouded, blackened by outside influences, so you take control of yourself you life and leave the blackness behind. Since then rainy day are as beautiful as sunny days, you find the good news in bad you clean your soul and make room for those that enrich your life. You know the rest of your life no matter how short or long will be as joyful and happy as you want.