Dan the man

Dis-honesty, selfishness, if I cannot believe you or see you lack compassion or integrity I simply walk away. In my life I have had relationships just like that, it’s why I have zero tolerance for people like that today. Perfect example is the family that owes a restaurant my wife worked at for 8 years she recently found out the father was taking money out of the drawer after it was counted for the next day, their policy is it’s the servers responsibility to make sure there is 1 hundred dollars at the beginning of the day, if not the servers had to pay the difference. It wasn’t a lot of money 5 sometimes 10 dollars and the servers were making so much money they didn’t really think about it. My wife found out about it and immediately put in her 2 week notice, these people were like family, we socialized together all the time, after her discovery they just turned the other cheek and tried to remain the same, but my wife told them she and I were heartbroken over this turns out it was a blessing for us and karma is working its magic. There have been so many people that tell me one thing and do another, I use to accept it mostly because I never had a lot of friends, but as I grew older and much much wiser I realized it’s the quality of person not the quantity. And I am completely content with myself and my wife. We both share that mindset so it didn’t hurt that much to walk away for people who said they loved us and we were family, but showed us we were anything but. I have run into quite a few exes either girlfriend or just friends and really worked and succeeded in keeping my cool, so I believe it’s an opportunity to develop life skills and improve personal growth.